Can My Visitation Rights Affect My Alimony and Child Support Payments?

October 5, 2023

Divorces can be an emotional and legal challenge for anyone involved. One of the most contentious parts of a divorce agreement is child custody and visitation rights. While the court determines custody arrangements, visitation rights are an agreement between the divorcing parents. But what happens if one parent stops the other from seeing their children? Do they still have to pay child support and alimony? In this blog post, we'll answer those questions and explore how an attorney can help during this difficult time.


Do I Still Pay Alimony If My Ex Won’t Allow Me to See My Kids?

The short answer is yes. Alimony payments are separate from child support, and they cannot be reduced or waived unless there's a court order. Even if your ex-spouse stops you from seeing your kids, you still have to fulfill your financial obligations. The court considers alimony as a means for supporting your ex-spouse, not your children.


Can I Stop Paying Child Support if My Ex Stops My Visitations?

No. Child support payments are not tied to visitation arrangements. It is a legal obligation to pay child support after a court order, and you cannot stop payments even if your ex-spouse denies visitations. Child support is meant to cover the costs of raising a child, including food, clothing, shelter, and medical expenses. Therefore, it is a non-negotiable legal obligation.


What Do I Do if My Ex Refuses My Visitation Rights?

If your ex-spouse is withholding your visitation rights, it is essential to take legal action. The court can impose sanctions or penalties on your ex-spouse for violating the visitation agreement. It can also modify the visitation agreement to ensure that both parents have access to their children. If you feel that your ex-spouse is putting your children in harm's way, you can seek a restraining order to protect them.


How Can an Attorney Help?

If your ex-spouse is stopping you from seeing your children, it's crucial to speak with an experienced family law attorney. An attorney can help you understand your legal rights and how best to navigate the process. He or she can also negotiate with your ex-spouse's attorney to revise the custody arrangement to ensure you have access to your children. If necessary, an attorney can also help you to take legal action to enforce the visitation agreement.


Visitation rights are an essential part of a child custody agreement, and it's essential to do everything possible to maintain them. Even if your ex-spouse is denying your visitation rights, it's important to continue fulfilling your financial obligations. If you're struggling with visitation issues, it's best to speak with a professional family law attorney who can help you navigate the legal system. With their guidance, you'll be able to protect your rights as a parent and ensure the best outcome for your children.


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